111+ Ways to Make Friends as an Adult

It can be hard to make—and maintain—satisfying friendships as an adult. The places we live, learn, and work often aren’t conducive to truly getting to know people and build relationships. It’s no wonder we’re in a loneliness epidemic with 2 out of 5 Americans saying they don’t feel close with anyone.

This blog is a collection of small action steps—based on science—to help you make closer, more fulfilling friendships.

It also includes tips for building stronger connection in your college, workplace, or community. I hope you’re inspired to experiment! Please share your thoughts, ideas, and experiences in the comments.

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93. Speak up/Call in: Addressing behaviors that destroy connection

Creating connection isn’t just about doing the good stuff—active listening empathy—it’s also about stopping harmful behaviors. Sometime the biggest impact comes from speaking up. This post talks about how.

communication, connection, inclusionJessica GiffordJune 12, 2023speak up, call in Comments

66. Increase your introvert/extrovert sensitivity with these myths and facts

There are a lot of misconceptions of what it means to be introverted or extroverted. Check out the more nuanced reality that the introvert/extrovert interviews revealed.

relationships, inclusion, productivityJessica GiffordDecember 5, 2022introvert, extrovertComment

7. Introduce Yourself to Put People at Ease

Want to build belonging and connection at work? Start small—by making introductions. Avoid the awkwardness of working with someone for years and never learning their name (hilarious video about this in post).

communication, relationship-building, inclusionJessica GiffordOctober 4, 2021make introductionsComment